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Are discussions about parenting ever less than animated? Tiger parent or free-range? Bath time as a learning experience? And what about that screen time?

Maybe it’s not surprising that 62% of American parents in a survey by Pew Research Center said their role was somewhat harder than expected. Thirty percent of women said it was a lot harder.

Harder than for other generations? That will further animate debate. But what stands out, despite generational particulars and amid pandemic disruptions and ongoing social turmoil, is a portrait of resilience – and a commitment broadly to familiar foundational values of solid ethics and care for others.

Mental health tops concerns. Forty percent of parents, particularly mothers, are extremely or very worried about children’s potential struggles with anxiety. That and bullying outrank drugs or alcohol (23%), getting shot (22%), or teen pregnancy (16%) overall. But income and race revealed differences: lower-income parents are generally more likely to worry about drugs, alcohol, or teen pregnancy, and Black and Hispanic parents are more likely to indicate extreme worry about a child getting shot or into trouble with police.

Looking to adulthood, 88% say it’s extremely important to them that children attain financial stability and satisfying work. Forty-one percent ranked graduating from college as extremely important, with variation by race: Asian parents (70%), Hispanic parents (57%), Black parents (51%), and white parents (29%).

Preferences that offspring marry, have children, or share religious beliefs rank low, while strong majorities unite around care and respect for others, and hard work. And despite high costs and low support, despite the pressures that the growing embrace across race and class of intensive parenting and its ensuing emotional and financial demands, these parents indicate that most days, they feel pretty good about how they’re doing. 

Do you think parenting is harder now? I’d love to hear your thoughts: newcomba@csmonitor.com.


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The Monitor's View

Last week, Iran’s ruling clerics began a 10-day anniversary celebration of the 1979 revolution that created the Islamic Republic. Yet nearly five months into mass protests against the regime, public enthusiasm for the commemoration is, to say the least, quite low. In fact, the mass abstention is an example of what has marked the protests: the use of nonviolent resistance.

The protests, which erupted in September after police killed a woman for the way she wore a head covering, have been largely peaceful. They are also largely led by women, many of whom defy a mandatory hijab law. This has raised the moral legitimacy of the protesters’ cause while delegitimizing the regime – especially its horrific use of violence to suppress the protests.

In December, the government executed the first protester (on a charge of “corruption on earth”). More than a hundred protesters reportedly face the death penalty while thousands remain in jail. A poll in December found 81% of Iranians do not want the Islamic Republic while 67% believe the protests will succeed, offering the biggest challenge to Iran’s theocrats in decades.

Officials now worry about defections in the military, and, according to the Shargh news agency, the regime has consulted one of Iran’s leading scholars of peaceful protests, Saeed Madani – who was jailed last year. His books have also been banned. Yet that has not stopped the regime from seeking advice from the sociologist on how to deal with the uprising.

Another scholar of nonviolence, philosopher Ramin Jahanbegloo at the University of Toronto, says Iran is undergoing a revolution of values, led by the values of compassion and tolerance, which lie at the heart of nonviolent tactics.

Those values are feminine, reflected in the women who lead the protests. “For the first time since the Islamic Revolution of 1979, the world is dealing with a feminist revolution in the Middle East,” Dr. Jahanbegloo wrote in The Indian Express. The slogan for the protests is “women, life, freedom.”

The poll in December by GAMAAN, a nonprofit foundation in the Netherlands, found a third of Iranians have engaged in acts of civil disobedience, such as taking off headscarves or writing slogans. Only about 8% say they have committed acts of “civil sabotage.” Nearly half joined mass strikes, and three-quarters approve of boycotting certain products.

Their cause was bolstered Sunday when a Grammy award for social change was given to Iranian singer-songwriter Shervin Hajipour. His song “Baraye” (“For”) became an anthem for the demonstrators in expressing their peaceful aspirations. Far more Iranians probably watched the award presentation than have participated in the anniversary of the Islamic Republic.


A Christian Science Perspective

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Each weekday, the Monitor includes one clearly labeled religious article offering spiritual insight on contemporary issues, including the news. The publication – in its various forms – is produced for anyone who cares about the progress of the human endeavor around the world and seeks news reported with compassion, intelligence, and an essentially constructive lens. For many, that caring has religious roots. For many, it does not. The Monitor has always embraced both audiences. The Monitor is owned by a church – The First Church of Christ, Scientist, in Boston – whose founder was concerned with both the state of the world and the quality of available news.

Consecrated prayer to understand God’s love for each of us can lead us out of boxed-in, lonely thinking.


A message of love

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Rescuers take heart as a baby is lifted from a destroyed building in Malatya, Turkey, on Feb. 6, 2023. Two powerful quakes, 7.8 magnitude and 7.4 magnitude, struck southeast Turkey and Syria, killing at least 3,000 people and reverberating across the Middle East. Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan said 45 countries were offering search and rescue assistance as well as other aid.
( The illustrations in today’s Monitor Daily are by Karen Norris. )

A look ahead

Thanks for starting your week with us! Tomorrow, ahead of the State of the Union, Washington Bureau Chief Linda Feldmann will assess the first two years of Joe Biden’s presidency – a study of contrasts, she says, of highs and lows, triumphs and tragedies, stability and chaos. We hope you’ll join us again Tuesday.

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